Learning to tie shoes is an essential life skill and a significant milestone for many kids. It’s a practical skill that not only helps them become more independent but also boosts their confidence. Getting ready for back to school is a perfect time to teach this skill, especially if they’re starting with new lace-up shoes.
Here’s a fun and creative way to help your child learn to tie shoes using a DIY cardboard lace-up shoe, along with tips on different methods and ways to make the learning process enjoyable!

Creating Your Own Practice Shoe
A fun first step in teaching kids to tie shoes is creating a simple practice shoe out of cardboard. This hands-on project is a clever parenting hack and a great way to engage your child and start building the necessary fine motor skills.
Here’s how you can do it:
- Measure Out the Size of Your Child’s Foot: Using a piece of cardboard, trace around your child’s foot to get the right size. This will make the practice shoe feel more realistic.
- Cut Out the Shoe Shape: Once you have the outline, cut out the shape to resemble a basic shoe.
- Punch Holes for Laces: Use a hole punch or a sharp object to create holes where the shoelaces would typically go. You can make as many or as few as you think your child can handle.
- Add the Laces: Thread a lace through the holes. Using different colors like red lace, black lace, or yellow lace can make the activity more engaging.
- Decorate and Personalize: Let your child decorate the shoe with markers, stickers, or any other craft supplies. This personal touch makes the experience more fun and memorable.

To make the learning process enjoyable, you can incorporate a few fun elements. Start by using different colored laces, which can help your child differentiate between steps, like saying, “cross the red lace over the yellow lace.”
Visual aids are also super helpful, so consider finding a YouTube video for visual instructions. Seeing someone else do it can make it easier for kids to understand.

Celebrate their successes with some positive reinforcement. Whether it’s a small reward or just a cheerful “great job!,” it can really motivate them to keep practicing.
Make sure to set aside a regular time each day for practice, as consistency is key to reinforcing the skill.
And don’t forget about activities that strengthen fine motor skills, like threading lacing cards, or threading boards, which can improve hand-eye coordination and are essential for mastering shoe tying.

Different Methods to Teach Shoe Tying
Teaching kids to tie their shoes can be done in various ways. Here are some effective techniques that you can try:

- Bunny Ears Method: This method involves making two loops (or “bunny ears”) and then tying them together, crossing the loops and pulling them tight.
- Traditional Method: This involves creating a loop, wrapping the lace around it, and pulling it through. While this method has more steps, it’s a classic technique that many find rewarding.
- Ian Knot: Also known as the “fast knot method,” this is a more advanced technique that can be taught once your child masters the basics. It’s quick and efficient, great for kids who have developed good motor planning skills.
Learning to tie shoes is a rite of passage and a rewarding experience for kids. It’s not just about the act of tying laces but also about developing crucial skills like bilateral coordination, motor planning, and precise movements.
Occupational therapists often use these tasks to assess and improve a child’s fine motor skills.
As they master this new skill, your child will feel a great sense of achievement. Whether they’re tying their shoes to go outside or getting ready for back to school, they’ll be proud to show off their new ability. So grab some cardboard, laces, and get started on this fun and educational project!

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Parenting is a journey filled with learning opportunities for both parents and children. From teaching essential life skills like tying shoes to encouraging positive habits, there are countless ways to support your child’s growth and development. Stay tuned for more tips and advice to make parenting a little easier and a lot more fun!
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Anna Marikar, mum of four and seasoned blogger, has spent over a decade sharing her parenting journey and passion for kid-friendly crafts and free printables.
Her easy-to-follow craft ideas and practical parenting advice have transformed In The Playroom into a cherished resource for parents.

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